“Water is thicker than blood.”  I thought about this as I sat at big Bob Vande Bunte’s funeral on Sept. 16.  “Water is thicker than blood.”  It is thicker than blood because water does what blood cannot do: it changes our understanding of family.

Jesus was challenged by the Pharisees and Sadducees—those “religious types” who were born into God’s family by blood, born as Jews.  In Matthew 3, they come upon John the Baptist baptizing a whole crowd of people.  John turns to them and calls them a “brood of vipers,” continuing, “And do not presume to say to yourselves, ‘We have Abraham as our father, for I tell you, God is able from these stones to raise up children for Abraham.’” 

John meant to offend them.  They presumed that their birth as good Jewish Pharisees or Sadducees gave them privileges that others did not have.  They were right, in part.  It gave them the privilege of God’s law.  But the privilege also gave to them the obligation of walking in faithfulness, which they did not do.  They lived by self-righteousness and not by faith.  They simply held up their Jewish bloodline to those being baptized by water, as if to say, “We’re God’s children because blood is thicker than water.”

But what brings us into God’s family?  “For in one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves or free—and all were made to drink of one Spirit” (1 Cor. 12:13).  The “body” to which Paul refers is Christ, into which we are all made members through baptism.  Water is thicker than blood.  Through the waters of baptism, the Holy Spirit breaks our stony hearts and makes us true descendents of Abraham, God’s family.  For big Bob, though he never had children by blood, he was a giant father because of the waters of baptism. 

As the Belgic Confession reminds us, “By [baptism] we are received into God’s church and set apart from all other people and alien religions, that we may be dedicated entirely to him, bearing his mark and sign” (Article 34).  Notice two things.  First, God receives us into his family, the church, through baptism.  We are branded by the Holy Spirit and marked as Christ’s own forever.  This is what sets us apart from the world.  Therefore, it is a privilege to be received into God’s church through baptism. 

Second, the Belgic urges us to avoid the error of the Pharisees, which was the error of presumption.  The privilege of God’s family does not nullify but makes greater the obligations of living as his children, “that we may be dedicated entirely to him.”  As God’s children, let us bring glory to our heavenly Father.  How?  Through true faith in Christ, the Holy Spirit will work in us the fruits of joy, peace, love, kindness, faithfulness, goodness, and self-control (Gal. 5:22,23). 
 
 
Stop going to church.  When you look at all the activities and clubs that we join today, it sure seems as if we’re overloaded.  And when something is overloaded, like a computer, it burns out.  We prioritize our activities, agonizing over which are less important, and then worry about having to cut out church activities because we’re burnt out.  What would happen if we looked at church differently, as not one activity among others, but as a new creation, a new community over against old communities?  Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. 

Stop going to church. 
We live in a quick fix culture; unfortunately, this quick fix culture infects the church.  We go to church, thinking it’ll fix us and make it easier to live in our normal world.  What would happen if we looked at church differently, not as an answer to our normal world but as a direct challenge of our allegiance?  No one can serve two masters. 


Stop going to church.  Everything seems to be instant today.  Fulfillment is at the tip of our remote.  Sometimes we expect the same instant fulfillment when we go to church; but we often encounter an irrelevant message and old music that leave us wanting more.  We’re tempted to stop going, believing that private devotions are enough.  What if we looked at church differently, not as something that is supposed to instantly fill us but as a group of people yearning for what the world cannot offer them?  My kingdom is not of this world. 

Stop going to church.  Yes, stop going to church.  Why?  Because church is not worship on Sunday morning.  You won’t find in Scripture or history people saying, “Hey, let’s go to church this morning.”  You won’t find it because it doesn’t exist.  It doesn’t exist because church was never something you went to do on Sunday morning.  Church is who we are.  We are commanded to be the church.  We are called to live as a new creation, which means we renounce our ultimate allegiance to this world and hunger for God alone.   

And that will make us odd; it will make us different from the world.  We will stand out.  Good.  It’s about time.  It’s time for the church to be the church.  It’s time for the church to no longer be relevant but completely irrelevant.  (Does the world tell us what is relevant or the Word of God?) 

Why?  Why should we stand out?  When we are different from the world, we do a good work for the world.  Think of it like this.  If the world is an old, rundown, beat up neighborhood, then the church is the model home placed in the neighborhood that showcases a new community built by God.  We are different from the world, for the world.       

It is not a goal to go to church on Sunday morning.  Our call is to be the church of Jesus Christ, a new creation in Him, from Sunday through Saturday.  Let us be the church.